The state of Human
beings now
Many
of my blog followers have requested me to write some topics connected to the
essence of Veda in a simple way, which a common man can put to use. I titled
this topic as “Pragmatic Spirituality” as it can be applied in our day-to-day life
to improve its quality. In the name of civilization human race has lost ‘Peace’
which is the essence and purpose of life. Veda proclaims that our true nature is
“Ananda” which means ‘happiness’. But we see an average modern man is always
like a taught rubber band for some unknown reasons. There is a syndrome called
“Zikernic Effect” after the name of the Russian psychoanalyst who explained
this. This syndrome explains the state of the modern human beings who are
always in a state of incompleteness and keen to complete some pending actions
hoping that they will be happy there after. This never happens as Dr. Richard
Carlson said “Your inbox will never be empty” and always there are actions
pending in our life.
Learning
from the great masters ever since I had the privilege to get exposed to the
subject of Veda I have been constantly attempting to alter my normal state of
being, which by default used to be ‘Miserable’. Just like thermometer, if there
were a ‘happiness meter’, which could measure your happiness level it will
indicate that most of us are always in the RED zone of misery in spite of what
we possess or achieve. Earlier I used to invent reasons to be un-happy while
everything is going well, by His grace. With the application of the approach in
this series I have converted myself as a person who is, by default, happy most
of the time.
Even
any situation tumbles me I swing back like a karate champion to my ‘peaceful’
state; if I can do it, why not you? Are you ready? Since you have read this far
that in itself shows you are already spiritually initiated irrespective of any
religion or caste. By the way what I am covering here is nothing to do with any
religious belief but a science if you may wish to call it, which you will agree
in due course. The reason I titled this series, as “Pragmatic Spirituality” is it
converts the abstract Vedic knowledge into a ‘cook book’ application rules,
which you can practice like learning to ride a bicycle. You may fall down a few
times, but if you persevere you will get there.
“Veda” – The life saver:
Veda
is the essence of our culture and tradition but long forgotten as it is “out of
fashion to talk about spirituality”. It is reserved for old age when you have
nothing else to do. Very strangely we ruin our entire life in pursuit of wealth
as the famous adage says, “We sacrifice our health for wealth and spend all it to
get back our health”. Let us examine the role of money in bringing happiness
into our life.
Strangely,
we never respect what we already have and give importance to what we don’t
have! Rajneesh once said, only when you have headache we recognize that we have
something called head. We often take our relationship granted when all is well
and cry when the person has departed. Rajneesh says, ‘we cry due to the
unfinished relationship with that soul’; if we have lived our life fully well
with that person we will never cry and say good-bye to them.
One
commodity, which is missing in the developed world, is peace or else why 30%
people in the US are consuming sleeping pills and spend maximum of their
earning with the ‘Psychoanalysts’? It is increasingly becoming evident that
‘Happiness is not hiding in material wealth’. The modern society has mixed up
with ‘happiness’ and ‘money’ without realizing that there is no cause and
effect relationship between them. I am not recommending you to stop earning
money; but all that I am appealing to you is ‘Money has no power to give you
happiness’.
Money – The new Paradigm
In
this issue let me deal with ‘Money’ as the topic. Recently I happened to listen
to a debate whether money is “Past” or “Future”. For those who don’t have
money, it is the “future” and for those who have it is “Past”. But Veda says
that whether you have money or not still you can inculcate the state of mind of
both at your will. Ramakrishna Paramahansa was believed to have kept gold in
one hand and mud in another and dropped both of them in the Yamuna River. For a
common man he was “Mad” and they moved him to asylum. The pity is “the common
man chasing wealth appears to be mad in the eyes of an enlightened
person and vice versa”. The madness depends on what state one looks at the
other.
For
the vast majority of us, ‘Money is the future’ – in fact we spend our whole
life in pursuit of money with a hope that ‘One day we will be happy’ after
having enough bank balance. Strangely we chase it in spite of what wealth we
have and the game never ends. In fact there is only one purpose of life for
many and that is earning money. Looking at the past life of people like Michel
Jackson, Marlin Monroe and the similar celebrities like Elvis Presley who had
all that they wanted in their material life but finally killed themselves. It
seems that the other side of the material wealth is “Emptiness” because it is
not all that is easy to kill oneself unless he or she losses all hope in life.
The biggest disappointment for these people might have been they expected some
sort of great happiness and found none.
Paradigm of Power
In
the corporate life we came across people like Steve Jobs who made all wealth
and power in their little span of time called life. Strangely they were
expelled from the very institution they have built fondly. Now there is news
that the board of Microsoft is preparing to expel its founder Bill Gates as he
is giving away all his wealth to the poor. We find many people who earned
maximum in their life suddenly become philanthropic and wanted to give away what
they earned to the needy. It is strange to notice this feeling that dawns on
those who saw the other side of the wealth. If they feel hording gives
happiness, why they do the reverse of it? Why these people finally finding it
is empty on the other side of the material pursuits; while the common man is
mad after money?
Money is ‘Past’ or ‘Future’
There
are people seeking enlightenment like Buddha sitting in Himalayan caves alone
in peace and solitude while the common man feeling lonely in the crowded market
place!! Gautama relinquished all the ephemeral pleasures, which he was enjoying
till he was 29 and suddenly found emptiness in them. It is not all that is easy
for any human being to throw away pleasures of a kingdom and walk out like a
beggar. For Buddha “Money is the past” and for a common man “Money is the
future” – it is the attitude towards money and nothing to do what we have.
Happiness comes not out ‘what we have’ but from ‘what we think we have’.
The
two paradigms “Money is the future” and “Money is the past” has different
driving forces in our behaviour. If we agree, “Money is the future” we become
mad after it and go all out to amass wealth and die one day like a street dog
without seeing the other pleasures of life. If we agree the Vedic message that
“Money is the Past” it has less influence on us. Let me explain little more in
detail. One of the famous adage says, “You are as rich as much you can spend” –
which means although one may have million dollar he can eat only two or three
chapattis and not hundred at a time. In this context the money is treated as
“Past”. This paradigm gives you a notional feeling that you are rich. This
happiness is coming out of the feeling that ‘Others don’t have’ and hence you are
happy.
An anecdote:
There
was an occasion when Toyota organized a meet for all “Lexus” car owners during
the initial days they have launched when the car was very exclusive. Each owner
who came to the meet thought that there might be only 5 or 10 cars there, but to
their surprise there were thousands of Lexus parked in the lot and they found
even difficult to locate their car!! This has disappointed them as so many of
the people have the same car what they possessed. This shows that our happiness
is not coming from what we have – but what others don’t have!! Don’t you think
that this is a sadistic pleasure?
Summary
In
summary, if you go by the paradigm “Money is the future” one become a mad goose
who chases the happiness through wealth. If you choose “Money is the Past” the
wealth looses its ability to make them happy. The best way to live peaceful
life is to understand that there is no cause and effect relationship between
money and happiness. Veda says that “Material possessions can never give you
happiness” as happiness is the state of the being already. All that is needed
is turn to your true nature and instantly you will be happy.
Swami
Maharishi Mahesh Yogi once said that “Human beings saying that they are not
happy is like fish saying it is thirsty – all that the fish has to do is open
its mouth and allow the water to go into its being.” He says that we have to
make up our mind to be happy and not to seek from material wealth.
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Happy from this moment and forever! God bless you.
Love
NC