Every
parent wants their child to become a great personality and in the process want
to do everything possible by them. There is a rat race right from the time
parents put their little ones in the pre-school to chase 'marks' as the whole
education system is based on 'memory' & 'reproduction'. I was asking a old
education expert how the pass mark was decided as 35? He told me that any human
being is expected to reproduce at least 35% of their memory. In Vedic
period when there were no media like printing, all knowledge were memorised and
reproduced verbally! For example the Mahabharata over 100 thousand verses were
memorised and reproduced to posterity! Hence knowledge is 'Memorising' was the
understanding of mankind for ages. Alas! see the distortion of key aspects of
life due to ignorance.
One of
the wrong belief of parents is 'The schools will mould their children
personality'. Unfortunately the education is not intended to form the
personality as it is intended to provide some information such as earth is in
the form of a sphere etc. Personality of the young ones are the result of what
& how the parents behave in front of their children.
In this series on parenting I
would like deal with the specific behaviours of parents which affects the
formation of undesirable personality traits of their children. Look forward to
share the tips for 'Parenting'.
With
whole of my heart
NC
NC
Absolutely! agreed...one needs to be extremely mindful of all the actions and responses that are being exhibited by a parent in front of a child...it is the conditioning that matters!
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