How to make marriage work?

Making Choices

One of the point of conflict between partners often is when we make choices - be it food in the restaurant or color of garments or any other. When one of the partner forces the other on these choices it creates hatred and resentment. In variably when the wife chooses her cloths, the husband never accompanies knowing the consequences of time needs to be spared! Osho Rajneesh once said "Women wear wrist watch only as an ornament and not for seeing the time. 

When the husband wants to buy anything the wife never allows him to venture on his own. In this matter the wife thinks her husband is stupid and will either get cheated by the shop keeper or he may buy something which he will never use it. Even the husband may be a CEO of 1000 Crore company, but in the eyes of the wife he is a stupid! If you happen to see the wardrobe of your wife you will find huge collections which were never worn even once!

There is nothing called a good color or good food as it is the personal choice of the individual and arguing to convince some one to eat the food of our choice or buy the garment of our choice is stupid. In any relationship letting go of these silly matters is very important. It is important for the wife's to note that the husband never interferes in their choice of selection and to reciprocate they should leave them to chose theirs if they want. When your help is sought please extend it warmly. 

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