We all passed through the stages of toddler,
childhood and adolescent stages of growing. But we don't remember the emotions
we went through which is very important to recognise the emotions of our child.
The
small child heart beats at the rate of over 100 beats a minute and slows down
as it grows beyond 7 years of age. The heart rate is the function of curiosity
of external World. As a young baby it explores the world outside all the time
and hence the faster heart beat. If the baby sees a rose flower it is 100%
focused on it.
Although we were a child we
have forgotten that state of mind and expect our children to behave like an
adult. We feel embarrassed when our child makes a tantrum in a public place or
not following table etiquette.
We tend to put down the child
yelling at them as "Behave yourself". When we do the child gets
confused what are we up to. Whenever the child laughs we put them down saying
'Why are you laughing?' Laugh is the characteristics of a child which is
divine. The child becomes serious over a period of time and looses all its
charm.
In parenting it is important
to feel like a child putting ourselves in their shoes and let them manifest
their feelings the way in which Divine created them. The child is the form of
divine with all its innocence and pure consciousness. If the parents miss this
period of their child they will have to regret it later.
Wish you a quality time with
your divine being.
Whole
of my heart
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