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I love exploring new avenues with "passion for impossible" which were not treaded by others so far. Not bound by any race or country or religion for me to associate with and contribute in their life. Regular blogger sharing my folly as "wisdom" for others. Please visit my blog http://www.ncnarayanan.blogspot.com to learn the moment of truth I faced in my life that made me wiser to handle this complex phenomena called "LIFE" 

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I welcome you to my blog

Dear friend,
This blog is an effort to share all the mistakes committed by me in my Life. I wish to share them with a hope that you may learn from my mistake and avoid committing them all over again!

I am blending my wisdom with that of all great Masters who have shown me the Light.

This blog is dedicated to everyone from whom I learned. Wish you peaceful life ahead.

Love
NC

Saturday, March 12, 2016

Parenting - Golden moments

We all passed through the stages of toddler, childhood and adolescent stages of growing. But we don't remember the emotions we went through which is very important to recognise the emotions of our child.
The small child heart beats at the rate of over 100 beats a minute and slows down as it grows beyond 7 years of age. The heart rate is the function of curiosity of external World. As a young baby it explores the world outside all the time and hence the faster heart beat. If the baby sees a rose flower it is 100% focused on it.
Although we were a child we have forgotten that state of mind and expect our children to behave like an adult. We feel embarrassed when our child makes a tantrum in a public place or not following table etiquette.
We tend to put down the child yelling at them as "Behave yourself". When we do the child gets confused what are we up to. Whenever the child laughs we put them down saying 'Why are you laughing?' Laugh is the characteristics of a child which is divine. The child becomes serious over a period of time and looses all its charm.
In parenting it is important to feel like a child putting ourselves in their shoes and let them manifest their feelings the way in which Divine created them. The child is the form of divine with all its innocence and pure consciousness. If the parents miss this period of their child they will have to regret it later.
Wish you a quality time with your divine being.

Whole of my heart
NC