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I love exploring new avenues with "passion for impossible" which were not treaded by others so far. Not bound by any race or country or religion for me to associate with and contribute in their life. Regular blogger sharing my folly as "wisdom" for others. Please visit my blog http://www.ncnarayanan.blogspot.com to learn the moment of truth I faced in my life that made me wiser to handle this complex phenomena called "LIFE" 

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Dear friend,
This blog is an effort to share all the mistakes committed by me in my Life. I wish to share them with a hope that you may learn from my mistake and avoid committing them all over again!

I am blending my wisdom with that of all great Masters who have shown me the Light.

This blog is dedicated to everyone from whom I learned. Wish you peaceful life ahead.

Love
NC

Monday, August 10, 2015

What to say when you talk to yourself?

In human species we find a wide variation in personality which plays a vital role in our progress in career. Vast majority of us are unconscious about it as it falls in the "Knows not knows not domain". Anything falling in this domain may not be known to us. What we are not aware of can never be acted upon. Although there are several theories about the causes for variation in personality, I am in favor of 'Psychological conditioning'. This means recording a message in the subconscious by repeated saying by others or ourselves.
Subconscious is the most powerful part of us which regulates our behavior upon which we have no control. It is like the operating system (OS) of a computer embedded in the chips by the programmer. Like the computer functions as per this OS we act as per the subconscious.
Ever since we have born we are constantly in conversation within us. Only when you learn meditation and practice for a considerable period of time, you will not be able to recognize the presence of mind as a separate entity as an instrument for your usage. For common man who is unaware of this aspect, the mind decides his state of being. If the mind is happy, he is happy; if it tense, he is tense!

One of the conditioning is happening through what we talk to ourself. 24x7 all of us are unconsciously talking to ourselves invariably negatively such as "I am not good at this & that". One of the famous book written by Shad Helmstetter titled as "What to say when you talk to yourself" deals with the impact of self-talk and suggestions for positive assertions. Please read this book and initiate "auto suggestions" to make a big shift in your personality.

With whole of my heart
NC